Wrong Caption At Wrong Time

Okay, so lets say someone says the right things in the wrong time, that means they say whats perfect and acceptable just not in times where they are appreciated or noticed or make that much of an impact. So when we say 'i always say the wrong thing at the wrong time" that means that person says the wrong, upsetting thing, but at a time where it doesn't really effect the person, where its not noticed. Otherwise, the right thing to say would be 'i say the wrong thing at the right time' because that means that i say the wrong/upsetting/not acceptable thing in the time its most noticed and effective. I know that the phrase means that for example someones crying because their bf dumped them you go and tell them you're fat. This applies to "i always say the wrong thing at the wrong time" but lets say someones crying because theyre fat and you tell them they are fat. See, that saying the wrong thing at the RIGHT time for what you said.